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Niche mates, not competitors.


​How do you feel about the word “competition”? For us self-employed people, that word can create anxiety and resistance. Being “competitive” tends to make human beings less cooperative.


Instead, I recommend using the term “niche mates” — other worthy human beings who occupy the same industry niche as us.

They, too, have families to feed, and dreams they hope to achieve. And, similar to us, they also have hidden suffering in their life that, if we only knew, would inspire our deep compas…

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Energy Reboot 2


​This is a simple spiritual practice that I do, multiple times a day, that has made a profound and positive difference in my work.


Since it takes only 30 seconds, I do it at least 3 times each working hour (except when in a meeting). 

I call it the Energy Reboot. Several years ago I published a blog post and video about it: Energy Reboot 1. (If you haven’t tried the first version, it’s a good starting point.)
Over the past 6 months I’ve been using a new version, which I’ll describe b…

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Why I don't promise results -- yet have plenty of clients


​She was surprised:


"How do you get clients without promising results?"

Other business coaches had promised her piles of cash. When their methods didn't deliver the kind of business results they sold, she blamed herself... "It's not the coach... It's my own fault."

I used to promise results, too. Isn’t that the only way to get clients? 
After years of marketing experience, I’ve learned that sustainable trust is based on honesty and caring, not hype.

What I now promise to my clients…

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Focus on systems everyday, not goals


​In entrepreneurship, we often encounter a fixation on big goals and dramatic results. 


​"Get 1 million followers! … Build a 6-figure business!"

When that is the constant focus, two things happen:
1. Your subconscious keeps telling you—daily—that you aren't there... that you aren't yet "enough".

Desire becomes a contract we make with ourselves
to be unhappy until something specific happens. (paraphrase of Naval’s tweet

The fixation on a big numeric goal (such as “6 figure income”…

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The 8 Practices of Authentic Business


​To sustain well-being in any area of life requires discipline (or persistent practice). Specific actions, done consistently, allow you to thrive. 


In physical health, good practices include eating nutritiously, exercising adequately, sleeping enough, and caring relationships.

When it comes to authentic business, there are 8 important practices that I recommend.

​I'll describe each of these.
1. Joyful Productivity

Here is the foundation for any thriving business: the ability to con…

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